LOVE STORY (Taylor Swift) meets VIVA LA VIDA (Coldplay) – Piano Cello – by Jon Schmidt

Mrs. Utah Pageant

 Oh, pageants…Sigh. The good, the bad and the ugly of pageants! haha.  I think pageants are a great way to get out of ones comfort zone, meet new people, learn about oneself, discover passions, connect with other passionate women, promote what you stand for and it can be a great experience. And I love that you don’t have to be single to compete in one. If you are a married woman and always wanted to do a pageant and just never got the chance check out your local Mrs. Pageants. I’m from Utah so below are the Mrs. Utah Pageant promotional videos. 

I did the pageant last year and am definitely glad I did it. My platform was “Revealing Radiance in Women” and is one of the reasons I started this blog and is exactly were the name radiantwomen.wordpress.com came from. I am actually in the videos a couple of times. The only obvious one of me is in my swimsuit! So, look for me.  I can’t believe I’m saying “look for me in my swimsuit.” But, I am. I actually think I look good. Hooray! Hooray that I can acknowledge it when I feel that way! The opposite is true too. Hooray that I can be ok with not feeling ok about my body!  haha.

The videos really sheds light on what the experience can be like and shows more of the authentic side and the more positive side. This pageant was actually a couple of weeks ago.

The bottom video is a shorter version of the first video.

Britains Got Talent- Susan Boyle

 

What’s Prettier Than Freckles?

 

What’s Prettier Than Freckles?
– Author Unknown

 

An elderly woman and her little grandson, whose face was sprinkled
with bright freckles, spent the day at the zoo. Lots of children were
waiting in line to get their cheeks painted by a local artist who was
decorating them with tiger paws.

“You’ve got so many freckles, there’s no place to paint!” a girl in 

the line said to the little fellow.

Embarrassed, the little boy dropped his head. His grandmother

knelt down next to him. “I love your freckles. When I was a little girl

 I always wanted freckles,” she said, while tracing her finger across

the child’s cheek. “Freckles are beautiful.”

The boy looked up, “Really?”

“Of course,” said the grandmother. “Why just name me one thing

that’s prettier than freckles.”

The little boy thought for a moment, peered intensely into his

grandma’s face, and softly whispered, “Wrinkles.”

 

My Weight Loss and Gain History! What’s Yours?

I just lost 8 pounds!!! If you have read MY STORY page you’ll know that I GAINED between 50-55 lbs when I got pregnant over 3 years ago. I went from 125 to 175 in nine months and I had quite the journey these past 3 years learning about fitness and nutrition and what so far does and doesn’t work for me. Here’s my journey in detail…

After giving birth I remember my first task and workout was to relearn how to stand up from the floor with just my legs (no arm support) and holding a 9 lbs baby in my arms. It was quite the task!!! And I kept at it until I got it down…I mean up! haha! Then 6 weeks after the birth I began the crunches, leg lifts, eating right, etc. In one year and a few months time I lost around 30 pounds!  Then, I hit the plateau and hired a personal trainer. Still no results. Then I was introduced to Luann. She was a personal trainer who also sold health foods (weight loss shakes, vitamins, etc.) and she had a deal that if I bought her products I would get free personal training…it sounded good to me and I jumped on board! I followed her program and I lost another 18 pounds!!! Then I became obsessive and extreme…I started (on my own…not my trainers counsel) counting calories and whenever I went out with my husband and friends I would feel sorry for myself. I couldn’t eat what they were eating (or so I told myself) and I didn’t like that it was being rubbed in my face! I was mean and negative and overly strict. I was not fun to be around. I didn’t even like to be around me when food was around. After about 1 year and a half I just gave it up…it was so hard and not worth it! That’s when I went to the opposite extreme. I began eating whatever, whenever and as much as I wanted, even if I DIDN’T REALLY WANT IT!!! Just to prove that I didn’t have to live the way I was previously.  I only worked out a few times a month instead of 6 days a week. In just over a year I gained 15 lbs back! So, now we are at the present. I joined my relatives on a biggest loser type contest for 12 weeks and that’s how I lost the 8 pounds!!! 5.9% of my body weight! And guess how I did it? Of course I worked out AND I used Dr. Paul McKenna’s technique (see tags or fitness on right hand side) well, I didn’t do everything he teaches, just the basics. So, I ate what I wanted!!! I ate consciously most of the time and stopped when I was full most of the time. I didn’t even follow the program to the T and I still lost weight. Granted I didn’t lose as much in the same amount of time as last time.  But, I got to enjoy myself. I wasn’t stressed and I didn’t feel guilt. Now that is how I want to live!!! Peaceful!

I just began another biggest loser type contest with my relatives and I plan to get a little more serious about using Paul McKenna’s techniques and I believe I will lose a lot more and faster this time. I plan to lose around 12 more pounds. I’m going for the gold!

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Click on MY STORY page on the top or right hand column to read more about me and to see some before and after pictures of me.

If you want to share your success stories about:

*How and what you did to loss weight and your reason for losing the weight (Such as: want to be skinny, out of love, want energy, long life, etc)

*Your journey on self and body love and acceptance

*How you’ve found your voice of self expression and what that looks like for you

email your stories to nn.image@gmail.com titled MY SUCCESS STORY and you may be featured on my blog.

Team Hoyt- The Strongest Dad in The World

The first video tells about the story of team Hoyt, father and son.  Rick who has cerebral palsy tells his dad “When we were running, it felt like I wasn’t disabled anymore.”  That was all it took for Dick (the father) and ever since they have run marathons and Iron Man triathlons together. It’s really amazing!

This next video is an inspiring depiction of how spiritual and touching this story is…

It’s amazing the things people can accomplish and the people they can inspire when they are doing things out of love.

Dreams

1109779_sleeping_sister2All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.

-Walt Disney

“The Body Isn’t Going to Make it.”

 ”There’s nothing else to do but get well, and that’s not up to the body. Ultimately the body isn’t going to make it. This is good news- it’s over, forget it, let’s work with what we do have. Can you get it from here? If this body story were true, it would mean that no fat person could be self-realized, no one in a wheelchair, no one old or sick, no one who isn’t beautiful. This leaves out practically the whole human race! Almost no one has a chance for freedom under this theory. We’re all waiting until we get the perfect body to be peaceful. Can we just do it from here, now?”

- Byron Katie

“Voyage of Discovery”

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We are all inventors, each sailing out on a voyage of discovery, guided each by a private chart, of which there is no duplicate. The world is all gates, all opportunities.  -Ralph Waldo Emerson

Size 16 Pageant Finalist

OH MY!!! I love this girl! I guess this pageant was last year but I only just found out about it today. I stumbled acrossed it while searching for pictures for my last post and I just had to share it! 

Her name is Chloe Marshall, she is size 16 and made it to Miss England finals last year. She became the first plus sized girl to make it! 

I went to the official Miss England Pageant website and found her bio and this is what she said in it:

 

  I would love to be a top plus size model and support curvier women, i also want to help teenagers with their confidence and to love them selves in their own skin, i want to show then that they dont have to starve them selves to be beautiful, because they are beautifull no matter what size they are

 

Miss England finals contestant Chloe Marshall

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Chloe won Miss Surrey title and has been signed on to Models Plus agency. 

Chloe speaks to Hello Magazine

She said: “It’s what I was born to do ? posing for the camera. And as I keep saying, I love my body.”People seem desperate to get me to say that I don’t, that deep down I’m not happy and would rather be thin, but the fact is I wouldn’t change myself at all.

 

“Do I have fat days? Of course, but what woman doesn’t!

 

Chloe told Hello: “I’m a size 16, I eat well, I exercise regularly ? I jog, swim, and work out with weights.

“What I am promoting is a healthy girl who looks after herself and doesn’t try to force her body to be something its not.” 

 

“Everybody thinks you have to be a tall, slim blonde and I’m a curvy brunette,” she added.

“I want to show it is possible to be beautiful and not a standard size zero.”

Apparently, she has gotten accused of being a rolemodel for obesity and many people have been upset by her. I think it’s just silly! According to the above quote from her she works out and eats right and loves her “bigger” body…I don’t know whats wrong with that!  

Chloe is beautiful and the example to all of us of how life can be… she may not be the “ideal” but she’s happy, ambitous, peaceful, productive and free. I think she looks great!!!

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